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Thank You Message to a Friend

Dear Friend, I care for you even it seems like I don’t. I care for you even those times when we don’t communicate anymore, nor those times when we are busy with other people in our lives. I just know I care cause when things went badly for you, I just can’t ignore your call cause I know whenever you needed me, it also means that you have already called everyone else but still you're not okay. You know I can't turn away from you cause you only seldom seek for my help. When someone belittle you, it angers me. When you’re hurting, it makes me wanna hit somebody so I could uplift your feelings. And most of all, I made my mistakes in my life known to you so you don’t have to commit the same one that I’ve done. My advices for you were always sincere so you don’t have to go down that road, instead, just stay focus on the right path. You are one of the strong woman I've known, so when you ask of me, I answer. I'm here incase you know it not. I feel needed, I feel special...w...

A Distant Stranger - A Poem

This poem has a beautiful message for everyone who struggle to be someone else rather than be their selves. It's a relatable message to all of us who sometimes in our life got lost and confused while trying to find and pull out its self from this world. We have choices in life on how we want to live it. Fighting to be noticed, comes struggling through, Making fun of himself, Just to make them laugh. A class clown, begging to be found, he charges forward, and never looks back. Realizing finally that, life isn't the way he wants it, The stranger decides to live, without any more fear. He adopts a new saying, his new philosophy on life, live life like you want it, not the way that is wanted. Willing to be heard, is a worry no more, because this future soldier, will soon be known. Not as an individual, but that stranger, that lonely class clown, who gave his life to protect our rights. The freedom to chose, to live like we want, to appose the norm,...

Happy Wife in a Happy Married Life

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" I love being a wife ." Infact it is a job that I would love to do for the rest of my life.  "It takes a happy couple to create a good and happy marriage!" Of all the goodness in this world, only few possessions could gratified a woman’s life. One of this is the genuine love from her partner...it's the most irreplaceable possession a woman could have. I’m grateful to God that I have this such blessing from the man that I prayed to have and to hold. It made my life much worth living for knowing that it is my purpose in life to be his wife. Not everyone are blessed to experience such fulfillment particularly on devotion and fidelity from her partner. So if you have it too, be grateful! Make it last!  Discovering my purpose and the significance of my existence in this world satisfied my soul and being. Someday, in the right time, I pray I could give him the most miraculous thing our love could offer. A child of our own to complete us as Family. Pe...

Always Delay Judgement To Others - A Reflection

No matter who you are, how experienced you are,and how educated and knowledgeable you think you are, always delay judgement. Give others the privilege to show their real sides. What you see may not be the reality. Never conclude for others. Which is why we should never only focus on the surface and judge others without understanding them first. It works both ways too..may it be positive or negative judgement of character... Remember, there is always an innocent amongst the guilty, and the guilty hiding behind innocent's smile...its better to have a real enemy that you can be cautious with your actions than a smiling two-faced friend who is just waiting for a chance to stab you when you're not looking. -Claire A.P Don't get carried away by your emotional mind . Being calm helps to realized an insight from the current situation.

Our Soul Needs Self Love - A Reflection

Often in relationships, we blame the other because they don't make us feel good about ourselves or they don't make us feel loved all day, everyday. Nothing and no-one outside of us can give us what we are looking for all the time. We need to keep looking within ourselves and nurture a kind, compassionate and accepting relationship with who we are. We should always love ourselves first to be able to give love to others and feel love from others. It fast tracks our growth.. enormously helping us achieve a state of inner peace that flows into our relationships even when the other is behaving badly. Our soul needs self love, but we should also appreciate the love given, and always love back. Lucky are the few who finds their soulmate. And I have reasons to believe that I am one of the lucky few smile emoticon. -Claire A.P

When The Spark Dies The Love Chemistry Fades

It’s true! It’s a disease! When courtship stops, the love chemistry fades and slowly by slowly it becomes tasteless. Worst when it gets bitter and still you’re not doing anything to save it… and you so wanted to dumped it. And when the spark dies, you then realized a lot of things between you both. Things that you should have seen before, and things that you should have done before the relationship went badly. Letting go of each other becomes an option then, but it's also an option to give a positive solution. It's just a matter of choice. Since you can't force the love chemistry to happen like how it was way back then, you just got to find other option to ignite that spark again.

Here Comes The Philippine Presidential Election Again for 2016

I longed to see the Filipino Spirit to spark again. Filipino spirit has weakened somehow and more citizens would rather migrate to a progressive country than to stay and put their hopes to the Philippine Government. And I fear for the next President of the Philippines. The weigh of the Filipino's desperate hopes for peace and prosperity will be on it's shoulder.

Best Reflection Quotes For Women to Move On

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May These Reflection Quotes about Break-ups, Heartaches, Letting Go and Moving On enlightened your thoughts and lift up your emotions. Happy Reading.

Let Go of the Poisonous Past

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Dear Challenge,      The harder you pushed to destroy us, the more you hurt yourself. You were so busy telling people how we hurt you yet in the process everything you've said just backfired and ruined you too. You know what you have done but you just won't admit it to yourself that you pushed too far to the point that you don't care if it destroys you so long it would make us feel miserable like how you do. You were so blinded by your hatred that you can't even draw a line between fighting for your right and just being challenged. I knew you were just challenged the moment you realized that you no-longer had control of the situation and things didn't go to the way you've planned... and karma is making you suffer.

A letter About Letting Go and Moving On

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Dear G,      I know this is too late because we are way beyond repair, but I just want to say that I pushed too far to hurt you and I admit that I was wrong. And though you hurt me too, I don't blame it on you. We had a bit of a blame game going on but it was all in my hand. I'm sorry for the last time.. for reacting the way I did, for piercing your ego. And when I realized that everything can't be undone, I fell apart. And when you were not there to help me get up, I lost it. I lost myself and I struggled within for some time. There were moments of doubts if I could face tomorrow without you. How would it like to be? It was tormenting to think that I should learn to live not with you.. not anymore. It was a life twisting experienced. A sudden change of what I am used to and a change of my future plans. But I would like you to know that I am okay now. Somehow, I managed to pick up myself and hold on to what's left of me. It wasn't easy to restore what I hav...

Writing My Heart Out Heals Me

     I believe writing my heart out is one path to healing myself. The moment I start to jot down the breathing of my heart, my tears run down off my cheeks. In my most emotional mind state, I am able to reflect, give some thoughts about it, validating and absorbing my true situation. I am like a child expressing my heart out to my father, and it comforts me after. The best part about it is when I came to a realization -realizing the bright side out of it.- and accepting what happened without taking it personally. It feels great to let emotions out especially when I got no one to talk to. Now you know it's okay to speak on a paper or creating blog post like you are talking to a listener.

Emotion, Reasonable and Wise Mind

There are 3 primary ways we use to refer to our states of mind. The "Emotion Mind", "Reasonable Mind", and "Wise Mind". Emotion mind happens if we let our emotions manipulate our mind and actions. When we let emotions rule over our mind, they may keep our thoughts so fickle that we have trouble being reasonable. Reasonable mind is once we can reason sensibly, be logical about what is going on. Wise mind state is the harmony, the counterbalance among emotion and reasonable mind. It is the place for your intuition, creativity, inspiration and letting go.