Always Delay Judgement To Others - A Reflection

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No matter who you are, how experienced you are,and how educated and knowledgeable you think you are, always delay judgement. Give others the privilege to show their real sides. What you see may not be the reality. Never conclude for others. Which is why we should never only focus on the surface and judge others without understanding them first. It works both ways too..may it be positive or negative judgement of character...

Remember, there is always an innocent amongst the guilty, and the guilty hiding behind innocent's smile...its better to have a real enemy that you can be cautious with your actions than a smiling two-faced friend who is just waiting for a chance to stab you when you're not looking.

-Claire A.P

Don't get carried away by your emotional mind. Being calm helps to realized an insight from the current situation.

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