When The Spark Dies The Love Chemistry Fades

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It’s true! It’s a disease! When courtship stops, the love chemistry fades and slowly by slowly it becomes tasteless. Worst when it gets bitter and still you’re not doing anything to save it… and you so wanted to dumped it. And when the spark dies, you then realized a lot of things between you both.

Things that you should have seen before, and things that you should have done before the relationship went badly. Letting go of each other becomes an option then, but it's also an option to give a positive solution. It's just a matter of choice. Since you can't force the love chemistry to happen like how it was way back then, you just got to find other option to ignite that spark again.
As they say “any man can treat a woman right for some time, but a great man can treat her right for the rest of her life.” To love is not a job but it still need your time everyday and consistency to work out. As the saying "It takes two to tango" and that’s absolutely true. No matter how the other partner fill in the gaps between them, but if the other partner keeps on moving away, there will always be a gap between them both.
Standing up to responsibilities and taking over the wheels were just two great traits of a committed man. Any man who stands up to be the head of his family is a define man and should be honor... He wouldn’t allow his woman to be burnout at work. As any good men knows the happier the woman is, the happiest he would be.
On the other hand, an inconsistent and sluggish man can drag his families life to the bottom. But like a saying goes “A woman’s shoulder were never meant to carry the load of a lazy man.” You can show your support to him but don’t carry his load.. or so like that.

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