We are the Product of Our Choices in Life

It’s the choices we make consciously or unconsciously!

There are many things that causes us to break down. There are many unmet expectations, broken promises, unsuccessful relationships, disoriented goals and unanswered prayers that makes us feel miserable. But when we only look closer and deeper within our very soul, we realize that we are the one responsible of what we are feeling today, whether good or bad, happy or sad. It’s the choices we make consciously or unconsciously.
What we are today is definitely the product of our choices. You can choose to be happy because there are limitless reasons to celebrate life everyday. Happiness is not just a mere feeling, it is a decision, a choice! Why worry much for things that are yet to come… hey!!! It may come, it may not! You are just wasting your time and energy worrying into something not real. Today is more important than yesterday or tomorrow. Why can’t you just leave that extra baggage behind? There are uncontrollable things that will happen in our lives no matter how much effort we gave to it. Either way we lose loved ones, the person that we cared and loved so dearly will leave us…That’s just life! There are people who come and go… We can’t hold them, can’t put strings in them, imprison them…But you can imprison your very self!

Letting go of someone you love or of somethings that is very important to us is very hard, but it’s not impossible. Letting go does not mean you give up! Letting go means we accept that there are things which are not meant to be, maybe today or forever.

Instead of planning what we wanted to do, why don’t we simply start doing it today!?! We decide when we want to be happy now, instead of wrapped up in doing something that might make us happy sometime. We must find work that we like to do and that we find satisfying today – not just work that may reward us in the future. We should love and feel that we are loved today – not just playing around and then get serious five years after or wait for the uncertain. We should love our kids for what they are today – not just what they may become years from now. We should celebrate personal relationships today – not just at anniversaries. We must enjoy the trip of life…today!”

-dheidz

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