My Quest For The Second Chance In Life
Nobody is perfect. We made mistakes!
Some say life has no second chances. They said we are always moving forward and never backwards. We can never rewind what we had with the ones we loved. We cannot bring back the happy times and the memories we once shared with the people whom we lost. Well, I guess they are right and I am wrong… But for me a second chance doesn't mean we need to go back to our past and tweak it.
I believe we all have second, third or as many chances as long as we are breathing. We may not able to bring back the past or the people in it but we can do what we did in the past over and over again. If we lied, we can always lie again if we choose to. If we have loved and lost, we can always love again. If we had a great time with someone, we can always have a great time, anytime, with someone as long as we want it. It is said: You cannot have what you want if you don’t act properly to have it, or if you don’t like it.
Each one of us has skeleton on our closet. It’s like everyone has two lives. The one we show the world and the one that was never meant to be seen and more often we choose to keep it with ourselves.
In all aspects in our lives we always have the second chance to make things better. Like for example in love, if we lost someone you can choose to mourn everyday and waste your beautiful life feeling sorry about what happened and blame yourself, or choose to let go and decide to reward yourself with another love affair applying the lessons learned in life from failures of the past relationships.
Some say their heart is tired, well because you always think that your heart is tired and always dwell in that negative feeling. Remember, we are what we think! Giving ourselves a chance to change our mindset, our paradigm that obviously impedes us to be happy or to love again is a challenge… a quest. There is no greater quest than to conquer oneself. If you want to live an awful life, bored and sad – it’s your choice! Go ahead and you have no right to blame anybody but yourself. If you want to be happy then go and explore the beauty of your life that is about to be conquered not by anybody but by you alone. Your happiness does not depend with someone else. People that we mingled daily, new faces that we meet, love ones that we treasured are instruments for us to be happy and not our very own happiness.
We may have failed, trampled, lost but at the end of it all, it’s up to us to stand up again and let loose of ourselves from pain, find some lovin’ and take the quest for second chance again.
-dheidz
Some say life has no second chances. They said we are always moving forward and never backwards. We can never rewind what we had with the ones we loved. We cannot bring back the happy times and the memories we once shared with the people whom we lost. Well, I guess they are right and I am wrong… But for me a second chance doesn't mean we need to go back to our past and tweak it.
I believe we all have second, third or as many chances as long as we are breathing. We may not able to bring back the past or the people in it but we can do what we did in the past over and over again. If we lied, we can always lie again if we choose to. If we have loved and lost, we can always love again. If we had a great time with someone, we can always have a great time, anytime, with someone as long as we want it. It is said: You cannot have what you want if you don’t act properly to have it, or if you don’t like it.
Each one of us has skeleton on our closet. It’s like everyone has two lives. The one we show the world and the one that was never meant to be seen and more often we choose to keep it with ourselves.
In all aspects in our lives we always have the second chance to make things better. Like for example in love, if we lost someone you can choose to mourn everyday and waste your beautiful life feeling sorry about what happened and blame yourself, or choose to let go and decide to reward yourself with another love affair applying the lessons learned in life from failures of the past relationships.
Some say their heart is tired, well because you always think that your heart is tired and always dwell in that negative feeling. Remember, we are what we think! Giving ourselves a chance to change our mindset, our paradigm that obviously impedes us to be happy or to love again is a challenge… a quest. There is no greater quest than to conquer oneself. If you want to live an awful life, bored and sad – it’s your choice! Go ahead and you have no right to blame anybody but yourself. If you want to be happy then go and explore the beauty of your life that is about to be conquered not by anybody but by you alone. Your happiness does not depend with someone else. People that we mingled daily, new faces that we meet, love ones that we treasured are instruments for us to be happy and not our very own happiness.
We may have failed, trampled, lost but at the end of it all, it’s up to us to stand up again and let loose of ourselves from pain, find some lovin’ and take the quest for second chance again.
-dheidz
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