When He Cheated On You - A Mothers Note

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Dear Daughter,

Please take time to reflect on my message.

  • When your man cheated on you once, expect that he’ll do it again.
  • When you still love him after all he’d done, remember how much more can you love the right one.
  • When you feel you can’t live without him, remember he has just started to live without you. If he is the right one for you he'll never let you go because you are already the one he's been searching for... unless you are just one of his options.
  • Even you think he's the ideal man for you but if he doesn't respect you and mistreat you, he's still the wrong one for you.
  • When a man truly loves a woman... He would wait for the right timing and sing to the rhythm. So beware of the guys who are hasty to announce there love before taking time to get to know you.
  • A real man would finish reading the whole book first before introducing himself to you. So be patient and just wait for him.
  • Right timing is when he would let you finish your priorities and would not distract you from achieving your goal like "finish your study". A real man would respect your decision and would gladly stand in the line outside your door and wait, but the immature man would enter your life without permission like an idiot or would appear to be very persistent to enter your life without an effort read the chapters of the life that you are making.
  • A real man would take time knowing you without telling you how he feels for you. and when the right time comes, he would reveal his heart to you whether you would like him or not. No hesitations
  • And when you meet someone who separate you from your family and friend, beware! This behavior is a sign of a selfish and a jealous man. He would try to play with your emotion until what's left in you is him... and break you down when you have nothing left for him.
  • Remember "It takes more courage to let go of a wrong relationship than to keep holding on even though you knew that holding on would just destroy you more...because giving up is much painful to handle than to just cling on. When loneliness strikes you, you may tend to go back to the relationship... bargain and ignore the reason why you walked out. So be brave, be wise with your reasons, and don't let your emotion dictate your decisions. I love you and as a mother I worry big time for you especially in Love.


Lovingly Yours
Mom



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