I Love Being a Wife Because

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Happy Wife Happy Life indeed it is for me.

I thought about this the other day, what makes being a wife so much better than being single and just living with someone? What's better about being a wife than being a girlfriend? How do I weigh and measure my status as a wife? Is it a definition of who I am? Is it a role I play? Is it part of who I am? Well the answer to those questions is not a simple yes or no - at least not for me. But then I tend to be verbose in my verbiage, hence why I write blogs on a regular basis to express my feelings and emotions from the heart.

So without further ado let me share with you Why I love about being a wife:
  • I love being a part of a family with my husband
  • I love having someone know me well enough that when I am surely, they don't take it personally
  • I love having someone who looks after me with the same dedication that I look after them
  • I love the assumptions that other people make when it comes to husbands and wives and the fact that we don't always match those assumptions
  • I love wearing my wedding ring - This piece I never take off
  • I love being a wife to a man who complements my strengths and weaknesses.
  • I love being a wife because it means even if I don't need it, I automatically have someone to help.
  • I love being a wife because it means he's always on my side - even when we disagree in private - we're still united as a team.
  • I love being a wife because it was a precursor to becoming a mother and now the two roles are indelibly tied up together.
  • I love being a wife with never ending reasons...bad times or good times!
I LOVE BEING A WIFE BECAUSE I AM MARRIED TO "YOU".

 based to the blog post Heather Long

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